Ferlita Sari, Psikolog, PCC

Stream : Coaching Competencies

Topic : Using Coaching Conversation For Parenting Your Adult Children

Biography : Ferlita sari is a psychologist, executive coach, trainer and consultant in the field of Human Resources. He has a deep interest in the field of human development. His personal mission is how to help develop each individual according to their potential. In 2012 Ferlita began to develop her skills in the world of coaching. An approach that he firmly believes will empower others to achieve the life he aspires to. In its application, the coaching approach can also be applied by parents in building relationships with their children, especially children who are growing up.

Description : So far, parenting is mostly associated with how to care for and educate children from birth to entering adolescence/early adulthood. When children enter adulthood, parenting is no longer talked about a lot. It's as if the parent's job is done at this stage. But being a parent is a lifelong commitment. Problems are often encountered when children begin to enter adulthood. Differences in choosing a career, determining a potential life partner, changes in values in life, lifestyle are some of them that can be a source of conflict between adult children and parents. If allowed to continue, the distance between them may widen, the more reluctant to communicate, the further away because they feel that each party does not understand the needs of the other. Parents need to change the form of their relationship with children entering adulthood. The relationship that needs to be built is no longer a relationship between "parents and children" but rather a relationship between two adults who have different visions, interests and life choices from each other. Building a harmonious and meaningful relationship is the key word to solve this problem. The coaching approach is one approach that is considered appropriate and able to help parents to build meaningful relationships, align various interests, resolve conflicts that arise, and strengthen the relationship between parents and adult children.